They say that the 40th day from a person's passing is the start of his ascension to heaven. It is the beginning of his journey towards God. What a wonderful feeling it is of going back to the arms of your Creator! It is a day of celebration, filled with prayers, good food and talking about the wonderful memories of the departed one.
Last January 18, 2013 was my Papa's 40th day Death Anniversary. I thank God that we were able to carry it out successfully and for not being too much affected by the grief that we're still experiencing. My brother Allan and his wife Elfie were not able to come because they were at her hometown during that time for a family reunion and also needed to be present for her mom's surgery. But knowing Papa, I know he understood.
Despite our limited budget, we made sure that everything was covered during my Papa's 40th day Death Anniversary. From the women who led the fervent prayers before 12:00 pm, the time of ascension of my Papa's soul, to the foods, drinks, chit-chats, flowers, balloons, tarpaulin etc. - everything to honor the life God has blessed him. Indeed even in death, his life will always be celebrated. I thank God for making Papa an instrument for us to live, grow and lead the generations ahead of us.
flowers, candles, food, crucifix for Papa's epitaph
(The wind was blowing very hard, we had to lay down the candles and cross.)
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| Having lunch right after holding the prayers. |
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It's ironic, my Papa never experienced having balloons or parties in his childhood.
Until now. |
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| Sometimes it just doesn't sink in... |
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Letting go of the balloons signifies our surrendering of
Papa to the Lord. |
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| One balloon, one prayer to God and a message for Papa uttered silently |
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| Of course, with that fighting cock photo, Papa would have loved this! |
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Are you holding your loved-one's 40th Day Death Anniversary soon?
What are your plans to commemorate him/her?
Be strong and know that your loved one's memories live in you!
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